tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327432597846266874.post4581932849458399445..comments2023-09-27T07:04:18.160-05:00Comments on Sweet November {newlywed and baby loss mama}: missing outBetsyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10664480324762808589noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327432597846266874.post-28505949448488228452010-07-16T23:40:58.944-05:002010-07-16T23:40:58.944-05:00Betsy-I think the reason that I love reading your ...Betsy-I think the reason that I love reading your blog is that you are so honest. Thanks for sharing your heart. I'm looking forward to seeing you when school starts!<br /><br />Phil 4:4 "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327432597846266874.post-32215982765056121412010-07-14T23:28:37.421-05:002010-07-14T23:28:37.421-05:00Sorry Betsy, thinking of you. I can't relate t...Sorry Betsy, thinking of you. I can't relate to how your feeling, but Livie would be so proud of you and Kurt, no matter what kind of attitude you have. And she was resting on your shoulder while you were dancing, just in a different way :) But I know it's not the same for you! Love and prayers <br />-AlyshaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327432597846266874.post-4042797485711996302010-07-14T22:08:37.077-05:002010-07-14T22:08:37.077-05:00You are not alone at all! I kind of wrote about it...You are not alone at all! I kind of wrote about it this past weekend, heading to a festival we go to every year. Walking up and down the isles of crafts I was always thinking about the things i'd buy for Aurora. Watching the other mothers pushing their LO in their strollers... and all of the tiny babies all happened to be girls!! This festival was always a fun thing, and this year Aurora was always on my mind. <br /><br />I hate the should be's! I try not to think of them, but it's so hard not to.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15244279743658314272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327432597846266874.post-53866760510204539712010-07-14T21:18:30.618-05:002010-07-14T21:18:30.618-05:00oh sweetie, you are so not alone. We recently went...oh sweetie, you are so not alone. We recently went to OH for a wedding. I had the exact same thoughts. Instead of staying with grandparents, Aidan was going to stay with my bff's parents. We sat at the ceremony thinking that we were supposed to be worrying if Aidan was being a good boy. At the reception I looked at Chris and said "I'm never going to dance with Aidan at his wedding."<br /><br />I don't have those types of thoughts often. Like you I think about what is more than what should have been. He is always on my mind, but not so much the should be's.Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11728204095692235352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327432597846266874.post-41302620592915232562010-07-14T16:36:33.427-05:002010-07-14T16:36:33.427-05:00Sweet Betsy, you are not alone. I had this same c...Sweet Betsy, you are not alone. I had this same conversation with some friends last night. I know that when I got pregnant with our daughter, my whole view of my life changed... though I didn't realize it until she was gone. Now it's the small things, not even related to anything baby or child, that will trigger reminders. Brushing my teeth, folding clothes, cooking dinner. It's all the "I should be doing this right now", "We shouldn't be planning for this". It's especially hard, like you said, to see young parents doing things with their small children. They are doing things we should be looking forward to. Life's events have a new meaning now. It's our "new normal". Just going to the grocery store makes me nervous. Or even a gas station to get gas. Shoot, just walking the neighborhood is a guarantee to see a mom or dad out with their child(ren). Ugh. You are not alone, sweetie. We know that feeling.<br /><br />Mere loves you!!Meredithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11464984499732136766noreply@blogger.com